Relationships with the parents by Eunice

Today in Fired Up! we learned what types of people there are or more likely their personalities like :Agressive,Passive, Passive-Agressive and Asservative. It was pretty interesting seeing situations in different views. We acted out some situations; the girls as the "parents", and Julia & Olga as the "teens". We saw that just like it's hard for us to deal with our parents and their "rules", they have it tough too. They have to deal with teenagers and we don't give in easily. But we learned why it is important to have rules and why it's important to have and follow them. We should follow them because that's what is best for us or else we would be living in a more crazy world. It was also fun to draw the pictures of our families and write how we are with them. I also learned that we don't have to be agressive with people. That we are in control of the relationship and not the other way around!
I learned a personal thing that none of the other girls learned. When the girls left I stayed behind to talk to Julia about a thing that was bothering me and she helped me. I learned that if you have a problem with someone or they are getting on you're nerves or something they sometimes don't realize it. I guess you could say it's because you have a different personality than that peron. That doesn't mean you don't love them. So you have to talk to the person! And just because they might get on your nerves sometimes it doesn't mean you dont love them! If you didn't love them you won't go out of your way to fix it! It's because you care about them AND that's why it bothers you that the person is getting on your nerves! So thank you "MY"Julia for always being there for me when I need you! And of course Olga for keeping our sessions in order! If you didn't I would probably be talking the whole hour (LOL... ! :) ) "I CREATE MY LIFE "